Did you know that using the ‘Law of Liking’ can ignite your social media network into an excited tribe, eager to get their hands on your brand?
Let me tell you a story about a recent client of mine. My author wrote a powerful story about coming of age in the 60′s. Once we started her social media campaign, one of her readers reached out to use to share her story and reaction to my author’s book. The reader’s story was just as powerful as the author’s story. So, we asked her to write a guest post. Additionally, she was eager to share her work with her friends in Facebook, Twitter, and her other networks.
Once we published the guest post, the author’s blog traffic skyrocketed and we quickly built an exciting tribe. With just one guest post, the author’s traffic to her blog doubled. Doubled!
So how did the author’s campaign take off so quickly? We used one of the oldest rules of engagement known to mankind, the ‘Law of Liking.’ Want to know how it works? Read on.
Most of us wouldn’t find this surprising, for the most part, we tend to say yes to who we like. What’s surprising, however, is that as simple as this Law of Liking sounds, we can use it to get hundreds of strangers to do what we ask. Even build a remarkable tribe.
Social media channels have given companies a once-in-a-lifetime opportunity to shed the fortifications of the corporate culture and let employees, which is who they are, (a collection of people working toward a common goal) connect with stakeholders. Both are people who care and share and want to be recognized.
As a public relations professional working the Literary angle for the minute, I find empowerment through three characteristics of the ‘Law of Liking’ grows social media tribes efficiency:
- Appreciate stakeholders publicly.
- Accept stakeholders as part of the business culture and openly acknowledge their input.
- Affirm stakeholders commitments and contributions large and small for everyone to see.
Using this method, savvy companies have built empires out of friends of friends who like buy from friends that like the same products and services. In fact, when this law is applied to marketing, “the strength of that social bond is twice as likely to determine produce purchase as is preference for the product itself,” according to Robert Cialdini, a leading researcher on the psychology of influence and persuasion.
Let’s think about this and your brand. After all, your brand is produced for mass consumption, so one way to increase the likelihood that people celebrate your brand lies with your stakeholder’s friends.
To increase the odds people will celebrate you brand, consider two additional points:
- Make sure your product is fairly priced.
- Create a likable persona, because people buy from people they like.
An additional point to consider is the halo effect. This occurs when something positive happens to a stakeholder, and others view of that person. If your brand happens to be the catalyst that set things in motion, then your stakeholder’s friends will notice and spread the word.
Furthermore, researchers have discovered that talent, kindness, honesty and intelligence are traits to which we automatically assign favor. So, exercise these in your social engagement.
Creating Similarity with the ‘Law of Liking’ Drives Awareness
A simple fact about similarity is this. We are attracted to people like us. This holds true with opinions as well. Strengthening your social network online requires a creation and sharing of similar, and favorable opinions.
With this idea, business executives should invite one or two people with similar opinions about the their brand to begin a conversation and share those thoughts with others. You will find that shared opinions grow wildly when they are the topic of discussion, especially positive ones.
Use Compliments to Spread Positive Energy and Excitement
Earlier, I briefly mentioned the three A’s of the ‘Law of Liking.’ Compliments affirm and the simple ones are the most powerful. We soak up flattery like sponges, and we tend to like those who praise us often.
As a rule, we instantaneously have a positive reaction to compliments. I might add, however, that these should be genuine. Research says we cling to false praise as well. This type fails to honor people and typically can be detected by any bullshit radar. Be genuine.
Spread Your Message Widely for Maximum Impact
Studies have also found “often we don’t realize that our attitudes toward something has been influenced by the number of times we have been exposed to it in the past.” Use this tactic to your benefit.
As you build a social tribe around a brand, look for opportunities to spread the good news and stories about your new product. Ask others to do the same. This is much like farming and seeding a field. Lay out seed generously wherever bare ground shows, you’ll find, that seed germinates into beautiful crops, and so will you harvest more people interested in your brand, and more stories about to share. This is truly a bumper crop strategy you can’t afford to pass up.
I’d like to hear your brand stories. Share them below.




